The Regrets And Leftover Emotions After Someone Dies

They are sights our eyes are unable to resist. I believe it’s the God Art we see that moves us to create. Even body fluids are a focus in some of the most moving art works on the ages, especially in Crucifixion portrayals and paintings of the passions of war. We are not in the graceful, dignified era of the fairly recent past. We are culturally in a very unpretty growth spurt…or maybe it’s a regression. At least that is what is expressed in the art coming out of a major part of our population of artists.

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  • To help you heal, may I suggest that you locate an experienced trauma therapist.
  • What isn’t helpful is avoiding, stuffing, or ignoring the complicated emotions and memories.
  • But when this particular step-uncle died, he left all of his brother’s kids an inheritance.
  • The old saying “don’t speak ill of the dead” can, unfortunately, make people feel like they have to keep their mouths shut about the problems in a relationship after the person has died.
  • Like many words in English art has multiple meanings, both general and restrictive.

Now that she is dead, me and my kids are overjoyed. My husband is torn and doesn’t want to hear the negative things said about her even though he agrees he will not miss her. My MIL had so much negative influence on her husband that my FIL has not had anything to do with this grandchildren over the last 2 1/2 years.

Our Hopes And Dreams Vanish

But most of the time, I’ve not heard of that happening. Because the mind processes this in a way that’s healing. There’s no reason to carry that with you. There’s no reason to carry any of that with you. In most cases, we can’t prevent death.

I Make Art Until Someone Dies

But I was also hurt, and angry, and part of me wanted to tell the world the truth about her. What did help me was that I had time, to sit and reflect before she passed, to write her eulogy, and though I knew it’d be hard to do when she did pass, I planned to read it myself. I chronicled the facts of her life, and I did do her right by focusing on the positives that were there about her. But, I also wrote it in such a way as to be honest. I found ways to write creatively that made me feel like I was also honoring my truth in the situations I had experienced with her.

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I lost both parents within a year of each other finding that my father was dying 24 hours after losing my mother. My aunt and uncles and families his siblings went into hiding. She was when he wanted them the most they did not want to know. They were but was always there for me them when they needed help. So by the time of his death 6 months later he had felt so rejected and hurt he had a final wish of not wanting any of them at the funeral. The only person I managed to get to visit a week before he died was his niece who I had to collect and take home an 100 mile trip something I could have done without having dad so ill.

Making Art Until Somone Dies

Sad the relationship will never be healed. Free from the feelings of rejection, abandonment and fear. My grandchildren will never ask why doesn’t he want to see me, cry because he forgot a birthday or pull a knife when they color and the marker gets off the paper and onto the table. The old saying “don’t speak ill of the dead” can, unfortunately, make people feel like they have to keep their mouths shut about the problems in a relationship after the person has died. We’re here to say, it’s okay to keep processing and talking about these issues if you need to, you may just want to choose your audience wisely.

He was a dishonorable man, who negatively affected my family due to his selfish actions. He was a former law enforcement officer who after he retired early was arrested and charged for stalking and harassing an ex-girlfriend. He had a tumultuous relationship with her for decades, starting when he left his 1st wife for her(She was also the wife’s former friend)decades ago.

The formula won for dela Cruz a gold medal in International Invention, Innovation, Industrial Design and Technology Exhibition in Kuala Lumpur in September 2000. “Tubig Talino” is actually a mixture of 20 liters of water and 15 ml of “Water Plus + I2”. A Filipino scientist reportedly discovered erythromycin in 1949. He was Dr. Abelardo Aguilar who died in 1993 without being recognized and rewarded for his discovery.

What self-respecting American woman would give such a peculiar old coot the time of day? Art was lonely and realized that the only way to get a female would be to find one in a culture where girls are raised to revere and subjugate themselves to American men of means. What’s sad is Art’s lack of honesty with his audience and with himself.

It may be to the person who created it. Life gives us the option to turn away or not buy it if we don’t like it. A friend and I go to a prestigious show each year with many famous artists in it. She refuses to even look at or acknowledge a painting if it is not in the style she likes. I feel that every piece of art in that show is worth looking at.